Bring out Your Sexy Love Goddess

In another life, I had the body of Jennifer Garner. I must have, because in this life I'm a a little stuffed sausage ready to explode. I wasn't always like this. I allowed all those evil milk shakes and cookies to corrode my soul. When I say the word exercise, it makes me cringe. Even though I know it will make me feel good, I usually kick it to the curb.

Although, I've not given up completely on the sexy svelte kitten that lives inside of me, I've decided to love the sexy, well-rounded love goddess that I am right now. And I'm hoping that all you other love goddesse's will try them too.

I'm a known sloucher. However, I've been making it a habit to conciously stand up straight and tall. Not only do I feel more confident, the people around me act differently. When I walk into a room I can feel the energy of them focusing on me . They smile and make eye contact. And I say meow to that.

Dressing sexy always makes me feel better about myself. And when I say sexy, I don't mean slutty. I love to wear things that have a little lace or wear a pretty piece of jewelry. I'm not saying that these material things actually enhance my life. It's the act of taking time for and caring about myself. Please don't do the jump out of the shower and throw your hair up wet thing. It just doesn't work.

I love to bring out the Geisha in me. I think they are beautiful and their rituals are lovely. I love making my fancy tea iand serving it to my husband just as a Geisha would. I imagine myself in a beautiful kimono with a lot of layers that need to be peeled away in order to get to the sensous red flowers that lie beneath it. Hubba Hubba. Now, this may not be your exact cup of tea. Find out what is. It's healthy to have fantasies like this. Release yourself and be free. I bet your partner will like it too.

Exercise. It may sound odd that I'm incorporating this into be happy with who you are now. The reason I'm bringing it up is because of the whole endorphans thing. Just taking a thirty minute walk will release these suckers and make a difference in your whole day. Exercise makes you feel happier. So, get off your lazy butt and move a little.

And the result of all these easy little fun things to do may even make you a smaller sausage. Enjoy life because it all happens to fast. And don't worry about what other people think of you, give tham all the middle finger in your head.